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Art heals. 🍃🇳🇬Lagos made me so happy. After a very tough year, it’s nice to reflect and look forward to 2019 in a city outside of Dubai. Change is good, holidays are better 🇳🇬💚Only you can define what success means 💚 #africa #nikeartgallery #nigeria #happyBucket list country off my list 👉🏼🍃🇳🇬 I’m also Finalizing this year by eliminating people who take my energy, time and who are mediocre at best. No more time wasting... now I’m setting up for the years ahead and who is suppose to stay in my life will be there. 2019 please be kind 💕#makeupbyme #jetlag #lagos #africa #nigeriaYou’re in your bed. I’m in my bed. One of us is in the wrong place. 🛏 . . No blog posts for months 😩 I’ve been busy trying to finalize this year and also taking some time out to reflect on this year gone. I will write a post about my experiences with long distance relationships. This quote ☝🏼is one of my favorites and I use to reflect on it a lot when I was going to bed alone but my heart was with someone else far far away. Long distance relationships (in my opinion) can only work with 3 major points: 📱 Constant communication: making “date nights” to skype, call, daily texts, share photos of normal stuff throughout the day. It’s important for both parties to feel constantly in each other’s lives. ✈️ Future plans: it doesn’t matter how often or long it is before you can see each other but the important part is there is always a plan and it’s two sided. You can never leave from meeting up with “see you soon” or “let’s see”. It has to be a definite date planned for the next meet up. Not only is it something to look forward to, but you won’t feel like the relationship is in limbo. 💍 The end game. There has to be a long term point to the long distance game. There are plenty of wonderful men out there, if he’s not stepping up, it’s hard to see each other and he’s got no real intention of ending the long distance in the near future... then sorry but being alone every night for the next 3 years is wasting the best years of your life. Let me know what you guys think! Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? #quotes #love #longdistancerelationship #longdistance #dating #datingquotes #datinginthedesert #curves #curvemodel #dubai #datingblog #blogger #lagos #nigeria #atlanta #travel #curvywomenThis adventure called life. Sometimes sad, fun, exciting, sometimes heartbreaking 💔 what’s the most important is how we react, embrace those important to us and keep moving forward to a new day 🌹#wordsbyme #aboutlastnight #mynamshi #dubai #postivequotes #makeupbyme #curvesYou were enough. Maybe you were too much, maybe he prefers less and you deserve more. All about realizing your worth 🌹 #rhsin #curves #rhsinquotes #queensland #quotesDon’t put your happiness into other peoples hands 💕 It’s up to you to change the situation. Men are easily replaced. I’m a big believer until someone has proven themselves to you, respects you, claimed you, offered you love and loyalty then you are available and open to talk to multiple people until you see who and what is the best for you. Like drake says: just cause he has a heart don’t mean he got a heart. Don’t settle for who’s in front of you out of fear of being lonely... the field is big, the world is at your fingertips and you my girl are amazing. ✨#drake #comeseeme #partynextdoor #minkpinkShaku Shaku into the weekend 🤙🏼🇳🇬 Not everyone who is single is lonely and not everyone who’s taken are in love. Remember this, it’s so important not to settle for mediocre just because you don’t want to be lonely! We all have our lonely nights being single, but what’s worse is being in a relationship or marriage and feeling alone. 👆🏼 I haven’t posted an article for awhile, I have so many stories of #datinginthedesert I get overwhelmed how to collect it. It’s been 10 years in the UAE, some as long term relationships but pockets of single in the city. And I’m proud of myself the last few years staying single in a time and a city where people settle for less just to say they have someone. Read my articles and tell me what you think 💕#linkinbio #curves #singlegirl #curvygirl #fashionnova #relationshipblog #datingblog #wordstoliveby #dubaimua #makeupblog #dubaiblog #abudhabi #aussiegirlsTo not be taken for granted... Try not to fall for potential. I do this all the time, and in the process end up give give giving... comes to a point when tables are turned and I need help but those who’ve taken taken taken go missing. ⛱ . . Biggest mistake is believing people have the same heart as you do. Watch people change when you no longer can give- the tables turn and you need support. . . . I give my last dollar with no questions asked 💵 I give my ideas to help your business over mine💡 I give my positive energy when I’m struggling to sleep 💤 I give you all my attention when I go to bed alone 🛏 I give gifts because I think of you wherever I go 🎁 I give you my heart and body without a promise or commitment 💍 . . . I will never change as kind hearts never do, but allowing to being taken for granted can... be happy with the sound of walking away. 💙 #wordsofwisdom #curvygirl #curves #dubai #blurrednights #loveyourself #selfcare #selflove #aussiegirls #dubai #queensland #wordstoliveby #onelove #beach #dubaiblog #datingblog #fitandthick #curvemodel #linkinbio #blogger #singlegirl #datingindubai #datingin2018Life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you and some show up really late. But at the end, after the fun there are a few who stay and help you clean up the mess. Most of the time they didn’t even help make the mess. These are your true people. These are the only ones who matter. 💙 #linkinbio #curvygirl #relationshipgoals #wordsofwisdom #words #blog #datingquotes #datingindubai #datingblogI was a museum full of art but he had his eyes closed. 👓 🔎 🔎 I don’t know about you girls but I’m getting real tired of being taken for granted. It seems where I go wrong is from the beginning I give, give, give because I honestly have a good time, have a connection and see the benefit in investing with someone for the future. It seems like once I walk away, these boys with their eyes shut can see clearly that I was in-fact, a good one and try everything in their power to crawl back into my life. The thing is with women, we will give it our all, but once we’ve given so much we lose ourself - We walk. You will never see us again. Don’t lose a masterpiece when searching for fakes. 🖼 . . . #linkinbio #curvygirl #dubaimua #wordstoliveby #louvremuseum #art #blog #dubaiblog #blogger #dating #datingadvice #datingblog #datinginthedesert
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ghosts of singles past
To Ghost, To be Ghosted, Types of Returning Ghosts. Continue reading
Posted in Disaster Dubai Dates, Relationships & Self love, Uncategorized
Tagged advice, dubai, fashion, fuck boys, ghosting, law of attraction, love, makeup, relationships, self care, self love, single advice
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Love isn’t enough
Mark Manson writes his article here about some harsh truths when it comes to love and just simply: Love is not enough. It is so true, yet we all continue to settle with situations, behaviors and treatment because – we … Continue reading
Don’t force it…
Don’t force it – the eyeliner, your makeup, the connection, the date, the second date – love. Don’t force situations… if it is meant to be, it will be. This is easier said then done isn’t it but I wish … Continue reading
